Heavenly inspiration /  Earthly  accountability :

to be able to be present when others are in pain..

to give love when your own heart feels the struggle..

to be willing to give of yourself and stay mindful of your impact in delicate situations...

and to be willing to make amends when you make mistakes...

all these situations test one's resolve, faith and genuine sincerity..

These are  lessons which only staying present can teach..