The DEEPEST  IMPACT :

the deeper the imprint , the more potent the impact....

and the more challenging the test........

Hence , the more penetrating the lesson is, hopefully, the greater is the realization...

It is usually the most uncomfortable lesson that brings the greatest realization...

If one is truly ready to be open , honest and realistic about the transmitted information[ like it or not ]...Then real release, clarity and growth can be attained...

And here's the irony.........

The clarity and knowledge that comes from THAT deep lesson is often the same clarity and knowledge that we advise others to seek.....

Hmmmm............

Boundaries , Clarity, Selflessness, respecting the wishes of others even if it makes us personally uncomfortable ;

That is the level of integrity and respect that should be maintained always..

Especially when it comes to us following those principles that we, ourselves, emphasize to others.......

Talk is cheap compared to action.

So,  Character Excellence and Personal Brilliance is the best illustration of this comprehension and application...... 

To follow one's own best advice is the strongest [ and often the most difficult] practice.....

But then,  words need not be said.......

Spiritual Integrity :

The truth is, we all have values that are important to us but often we lose confidence in our beliefs due to outside influence and external conditions..

WRONG PRACTICE....

There is a state of mind and heart that is crystal clear about one‘s higher self and our core values because it is NOT affected by the fluctuation of external condition...

It is a state of inner balance and appropriate self confidence...

It is based on the true nature of things and the acceptance of what is...as opposed to what one would like them to be ...

THAT acceptance is a powerful awareness...

And so,  spiritual fitness is based on the clarity to look within...and also to clearly see what is actually transpiring in the world around us....

And to NOT attach to an unrealistic expectation that is actually self created....

Integrity is a wholeness of self.....

where the Heart, Spirit, Mind and Body are in alignment 

and your  “ feet match your mouth“...

In other words...what you say... is what you actually do..

That alone is a profound skill...

the "Path of Radiance "...

the lineage......the practice....the responsibility....

When one connects to a path there are many elements that it consists of...

The traditions you represent...the actual personal cultivation and investment...and the commitment to spread the higher knowledge to honor your lineage and masters...

But what one often forgets about, that is also part of the decision is the effect, potential impact, as well as the reactions we get from other beings…

and sometimes the more brilliant the being, the more uncomfortable other beings get....Why ?

Because it is an unrelenting light that reflects back to them the clarity of self, discomfort, and resistance in their own lives...and many do NOT want to see the real truth..

And yet, the truth is unavoidable and penetrating.....whether they like it or not...

and so, the jedi/disciple who shines brightly often messes with their state of self doubt and their desire to hide from the light.....

Brilliance is uncomfortable for those who want to escape into the "shadows" of fear and avoidance.....

and hence, often the being who is naturally luminous feels apt to back off lest they make other beings uncomfortable and fearful...

WRONG PRACTICE...

It is NOT our issue that others refuse to seek their highest selves..

It IS our duty to be the best example of the character excellence and personal brilliance..

THAT is what beings of light and spirit do...that is what my lineage taught me to do..

THAT is the responsibility of brilliant beings..

If nothing else it is give other beings who are in shadows, a divine perspective of what is truly possible...and in truth, what is so necessary ...

THAT is the practice..

Mindfulness and Kindness are one thing but to back off from your "Path of Radiance" is NOT correct and will not serve the highest good for others or yourself.

Fear not the criticism........doubt not the correctness.....

Manifest the straightforward mind.

Reside in firm resolve of your decision to liberate and transform..

Not all will be ready....

but when their time comes you will still be there.......LUMINOUS......

Embracing All:

This incarnation has many tests, passions and realizations but none of them are possible if we reject or dismiss them as wrong or not transformational..

There is NO avoidance in this life or the next.......

Its the lesson and the newly gained perspective that are the gifts of full, conscious, embracing of the moment ..........

and that is the ONLY way one will be able to fully comprehend the "magic" that is being transmitted and the lesson that is being taught...

It is the way in which we perceive our experiences and direct our energies that is crucial...NOT the fact that we have them

Brutal Self Clarity...............Respect....

Respect is a state of conscious decisiveness....

It is not based on external conditions or desired reciprocation...

It is rooted in clarity and calm, appropriate self confidence and emotional stability...

Why ?

Because in order to receive it one first has to give it and it is given because one values the quality and virtue of another human being and it illustrates one's own personal integrity as well as, demonstrates one's appreciation for someone else...

How does this look , you say ?

It is developed by 1st, being self honest and internally clear ... and then,

when one says something...they DO what they say...period !..

If we are truly willing to be accountable and responsible for our decisions, then there is NO excuse why we can not be counted on to keep our word......

If one is not sure that they are able to live up to their own commitments..or are not sure they are able to handle a particular situation...all they have to do is say so...

Considerate communication and respect is essential in maintaining healthy relationships whether they are personal or professional...

and THAT simple effort shows self respect...and respect for others...

If we allow others to be unclear and tenuous in their interactions with us, we are just enabling their lack of clarity and decisiveness and actually, fostering unhealthy co-dependency...and ultimately demonstrating disrespect for ourselves...

Why ?

Because we should not tolerate that type of behavior in our world if we want to be treated appropriately and be examples of character excellence and personal brilliance...

Healthy , firm boundaries train other people how to treat us....

and the whole point of boundaries is that they need to KEPT
and consistency IS the key.

 

When we are examples of conscious , considerate behavior, others will treat us accordingly...
and if they dont ...they need to be informed..blessed and sent off to the woods for deeper contemplation ...

And I am NOT kidding about this...

Disrespect breeds mistrust and resentment........

2 very unhealthy conditions...

And i truly believe in kindness and forgiveness... but...

Every now and then...the "Vajra" Blade of truth and clarity needs to cut through the muddiness of ignorance and confusion........

"WOOOOOSH"........

Confusion handled !